I was introduced to Mount St. Benedict when we lived in Jamestown, NY. My wife had visited a few times for spiritual direction. Then she told me that men also were welcome! So I came with her a couple of times, and we attended a Sunday worship service. I always sensed the holy, peaceful spirit of the place. Upon finding out about the oblate program, I knew that it was for me. It enabled me to formalize my ties and to be open to the monastic way.